EULOGY TO DEAREST GOOFY….(1995-2009)

Goofy is a white Shih Tzu…named after the Walt Disney character because of his good sense of humour. He was at his worse an intelligent dog who would not allow you to outwit him. You shut the front door and he would make a dash through the side exit to get to the car porch. His appetite for food and his happy disposition undoubtedly won the hearts of all family members. He was very territorial and would not hesitate to mark the flower pots and car rims with his water trademark each time he lifted his hind legs, but otherwise he was well housetrained.

Since a pup, he was a bundle of joy for everyone at home. My son Felix bought him from a local farm. Goofy refused to sleep alone and on his first night with us, he whined until we took him upstairs to sleep in the bedroom. Since then our bedrooms were as much his as everyone else at home, much to the horror of our family doctor. He fathered a son when a female Maltese, Snowy, was brought home from Australia. Richie today is a seven-year-old bundle of joy like the father.

The three dogs would do all their antics together. They would charge to the gate and bark as musicians would synchronize harmoniously in a symphony, jumped into the car and wrestle for the window seats, or stand astride in a row when taking their meals from the bowls. The three white dogs…so some neighbours called them.

Goofy was always protective of his son. He would bark, as if to scold his son if he felt there was any transgression. At times he would playfully wrestle with his son, pushing and shoving each other before rolling on the floor, while two rolling white towels.

Over the past year, Goofy began to slow down. He was eating less. He lost weight. He couldn’t run as fast nor bark as loud. He would amber up the stairs and insisted that he be carried downstairs every morning, which was an additional chore for the maid, who cared for him affectionately.

On the rare occasions that he was temperamental, he would give a short snap but caused no damage or hurt to anyone. His latter years were also marred by an ear infection which was easily resolved with some cream and daily cleaning.

Friday March 6, Goofy he was nauseas but didn’t vomit. A visit to the vet on Saturday resulted in him being put on the drip. He began to limp and was lethargic. Sunday March 8 he was rushed to the veterinary hospital for an X-ray as his condition deteriorated. He pulled through and we took him home.

His faithfulness to our family saw him struggling to cling on to life till Wednesday March 11, when my son Felix flew back from Hongkong to spend the whole day by his side. A last family portrait of my wife Margaret, Felix and I, was taken with Goofy, Snowy and Richie. Even in his last months, he kept looking for his son, who would come by to lick his face and sniff him.

Goofy retired for the evening around 11pm together with his family for one last time that evening. He passed away in the wee hours, possibly around 5.30-5.40am March 12 [perhaps coincidentally it was the time when my wrist watch stopped], with his head transfixed at the spot where his son was asleep. His body was still warm when I touched him at 6.30am. In many ways, he looked the stately gentleman that he was even in his passing, with his front legs crossed and his hind legs together.

We will cherish the many happy moments together, when we went for strolls along the waterfront and the car rides…and how proudly he would bark at the other dogs in the neighbourhood as if to tell the others he was going out for an evening drive.

All’s that is left is for us to remember the lines in CATS the Musical:

Memory
All alone in the moonlight
I can smile at the old days
I was beautiful then
I remember the time I knew what happiness was
Let the memory live again

Pets...and their bonds with humans

I have three pet toy dogs at home, but my first pet was Fred who was given to my family when he was about three years old. He was a Shih Tzu, squat and with whitish brown fur. Because he was not properly brought up, he was rather temperamental and would snap at anyone who approached him from the front to pat his head. But other than that, and besides an occasional growling, he was a delightful chap who would run a good run up and down the garden. He would consume all his energy chasing after a ball up and down the lawn and end up panting for dear life after that. One day his health began to deteriorate because of old age and the vet said he needed an operation to remove a cancerous growth in his abdomen. Dutifully we put Fred on the operating table. He recovered somewhat, albeit for only another six months or so. This time he suffered from am inability to urinate and his kidneys were failing. Eventually the fateful decision had to be made for Fred to take one last look at all of us, and with a few faint breaths he was put to sleep by the vet to relieve him of all his sufferings. For more than a year, we didn't buy any new pets in deference to Fred.

Now once again I have to go through the stress and trauma of coping with Goofy, who is almost 16 years old, and is suffering from failure of his liver, heart and kidney. From a bouncing Shih Tzu, he became a bony, subdued dog, who is now unable to take but a few strides before he collapses onto the ground. He hardly eats and has to be forced feed with water to keep him going. The doctors couldn't do much except to try and give him a quality life as he inches towards the certainty in the circle of life. Goofy is yet another family pet, lovable and adorable. He is clever and is the only dog who uses his paws to scratch on the door if he wants you to let him into the room. He supervises his son, Ritchie, like a good father and would be the first on the car porch if he sees his son rushing to the main gate. His wife Snowy would stand idly by as she watches him discipline his son. Goofy is a father who dotes on his son. He would gladly give way to Ritchie when he takes his meals. Now Goofy is but a helpless father as his son comes and kisses him by licking his face. I can only do my best to prolong the days for Goofy and pray that he would be able to move on without more pain or suffering to the next world. Whatever...the passage of time will not erase the fond memories of Fred and Goofy.

Soon there will be Tigers no more in Sri Lanka

At long last we read about the Sri Lankan government forces having an upper hand over the Tamil Tigers. It is hoped that soon peace will return to this paradise island and it can shed its image as the tear drop of India. Sadly we are told the civilian population are bearing the brunt of the last ditch stand by the Tigers. With the Colombo government determined to exercise its rightful authority, it is believe that the conflict is unlikely to last for long. What brought about the turn of tide in this conflict will be eagerly followed by other governments, as there are lessons that may be drawn from here. Interestingly it will be good to know if big brother India has a part to play in helping to determine the victor.

The next goal will be for the Colombo government to rebuild the northern territory so that the residues from the Tigers will not be given another opportunity to build its lair and resurrect itself. Seeking revenge, searching for skeletons and isolating the people in the north should not be the way to win over their hearts and minds. Let's hope the last chapters of the insurgent war will close with all the people united under the Sri Lanka flag.

Of accountants, auditors and accountability

A new world order is likely to emerge after all the reshuffling of cards in the corporate world as well as in bilateral ties between nations. Let's hope that the way ahead to economic recovery and rebuilding of economies will not take too long. The job cuts by the big corporations have been swift and furious. Individuals who have over extended themselves financially will find themselves in a state of shock if not panic. There are some basic lessons to remember, such as cultivating the habit of saving during good times and keeping within one's budget, and constantly reminding ourselves that not every day is a sunny day. One good principle to follow is to ask yourself how can you work you way to become financially independent of your full time job?

In the coming weeks as the East celebrates the Lunar New Year, the time for festivities is over for the West as they try to find their foot back on the slippery ground. Hopefully the harsh weather they are facing now will be over before long and by April Barack Obama's 100 days in office will be over. The world will then know whether the new US President is able to make the change that he talked so much about.

One change that is not on his cards is the need to make corporate auditors more stringent and accountable in their work. I often wonder with all the accounting audits being carried out throughout the corporate world, how did all the frauds and scams escape them? It frightens me to think after years of scrutiny by internal and external auditors, the frauds were allowed to continue under their eyes. What's the purpose of audits then, if they are not able to detect the very task they are assigned to do. Should the entire syllabus for the training of accountants be reviewed. Should the relationship between auditors and clients be reviewed so that the former can be truly independent in their scrutiny of accounts without worrying about whether their contract will be renewed in the next fiscal year? Millions of dollars are lost...many lives are shattered...not to mention the many jobs that are lost because someone out there didn't do a good job of what they were paid to do as professionals.

May Man Be Kinder in 2009

Alas the curtains will come down on 2008. For some more resolutions will be made only to be broken yet again as the clock ticks past the midnight hour of 2009. Indeed many will be reflecting on the days and months that have gone by. For those who have put in effort to do something useful, they may be looking back with fulfilment. Others, it may well be precious time wasted as they find themselves left by the wayside while the world moves on.

Certainly there were many challenges in these past months, especially in the last quarter of this year. The not altogether unexpected economic downturn shattered the dreams of many. Jobs were lost, opportunities missed and the luckier ones only lost their year-end bonuses. The painful tragedy of Dec 2004 is still remembered when the tsunami killed thousands and left many more homeless. Obituaries still fill the newspaper pages to remind of the passing of loved ones. Indeed 2008 may also be remembered as the year where names like Nobel Prize British playwright Harold Pinter and US singer and dancer Eartha Kitt will be missed. Then there are the many others, unknown but fallen heroes who died in the course of their line of duty in Afghanistan, Iraq, Bosnia, Pakistan, India including civilians killed because of senseless bombings by terrorists. Even as this blog is written, more are being killed in the Middle East as they will also be in the South African continent such as Zimbabwe, Sudan and Somalia.

Mankind is known to be great builders of cities and nations. Mankind is also known for its great civilisation, artistic talents and ingenuity in inventions. If the present carnage continues, mankind may well be better known for its work of destruction and mayhem. Let's hope that 2009 will bring good sense and civility to the leaders of the powers so that mankind can continue to build on its good reputation. That there will be greater kindness, concern and goodwill to all mankind.

War - a timely boost for nations in recession?

Once again the Middle East has become a battleground. Both sides involved in the confrontation are blaming each other. Understandably it is not easy to keep the peace in the Middle East, given the politics in the region. I recalled reading the Bible and the many hardships that the people had to endure because of their disobedience to God. I am here not to preach but to ask whether there is sufficient will power among the political leaders to influence their people to work towards peaceful co-existence. Biggers nations with different political ideology can sit and negotiate, why can't two neighbours?

It is indeed sad that barely days after celebrating Christmas, brightly-lit decorations, jingle bells, sleighs, Santa Clauses and carolling are replaced by the blazing of rockets, missiles, tanks and screaming jet fighters. The pictures on the television show carnage, destruction and death. The continuous replaying of these scenes do no more than to incense the people as they watch the same television footage played over and over again. It's called "Breaking news..." though the footages are more than 24 hours hold.

Then I ask myself where is the leadership in the Arab world? Or is there no leader who can influence the region because everyone has his own vested interest to see the other weakened. That countries in the region are fighting proxy wars using the Palestinians and the Isrealis as the pawns. Someone pointed out that there is indeed a benefit coming out of this whole conflaguration. Wars will generate demand for oil, weaponry, munitions and so forth, not to mention the post-war rebuilding of towns and cities. So the beneficiaries will only indulge in empty rhetoric so long as the wars don't come anywhere close to their borders. The war therefore becomes a much needed booster to create demand and bring economies out of a recession.

Stay healthy, stay away from the pills

A group of US researchers has raised an alarm over that older adults in the US who are popping prescription pills, over-the-counter drugs and dietary supplements in record numbers. Their concern is that these combination of drugs could be deadly.
Apparently more than half of US adults who aer 57-85 years old are using five or more prescription or non-prescription drugs. Added to this, 1in 25 are taking them in combinations that can result in dangerous drug interactions. With rising medical costs, it is not surprising that people are doing pill popping not only for self-medication but also in the believe that taking supplements would keep themselves healthy. With the Internet awashed with all kinds of advice on how to cure and how to keep healthy, and there is no lack of blogs and other discussion groups on health care, it is not surprising that people are just doing what they are doing. Indeed we are in the realm where little knowledge is dangerous.

If a study is done in countries in Asia, the result would not be far different. Perhaps the only distinction would be that those in Asia would add herbs and other local medication to the "prescription". It is not uncommon for example to find people using a combination of Western drugs and Chinese herbal medicine. Some hospitals that practised Western medicine seem to have succumbed to the popularity of Chinese medicine and allowed the non-traditional clinics to be set up. Even some doctors took up traditional Chinese medicine to augment their knowledge and prescribe a combination of both. While undoubtedly there may be merits in some TCM, the problem is that TCM medication are not scientifically tested. Hence there are no proper checks and balances on what's contained in the medication and their efficacy when given to a sick patient.

Public education is important if this pill popping culture is to be checked. The medical profession should debunked the myths floated by some who touted their pills are the ultimate protection for all illnesses. TCM should be scientifically tested and where appropriate they should be given the due recognition. This way the population would be better protected. And lastly, we should look into how to keep medical costs affordable. All the rhetoric about altruism and helping the poor means nothing if at the end of the day the medical bills paint a different story. For example I am told if you aren't able to afford a $100, don't think of visiting the public hospital for an emergency consultation!